‘In the process of letting go, you will lose so many things from the past but you will find yourself!’
Sometimes holding on seems to be the best decisions you can make concerning something. I believe that if that thing or person you are holding on to gives you positive vibes and doesn’t hold you back… that doesn’t hold your greatness and achievements back then it is worth holding on to it.
The difficult thing to do comes when it is time. Time to say goodbye… Time to Let go. Time to finally take back your power and decide that you don’t need something or someone to keep you ‘alive’. The best thing you can actually do for yourself whenever you get in to a situation you can’t even fathom, is just to let go.
✨Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about something. No! It actually means that you really care more about yourself not to lose your sanity. You can decide to let go of all anger that is holding you back from experiencing the joys in your life, you can let go of a friendship or relationship that makes you feel unworthy or that makes you do things you regret you did when you are alone, things that make you feel shame…embarassed..let go of the hate hidden deep in your heart and spread love… let go of that stress that is eating you up, making you feel crazy all the time. Making you battle with your mind…
✨Start living in the present. I was thinking about something the other day. Trying to reminisce of the moments I cherished when still young and dumb… a child I was. The memories are just fragments in my mind. I always tried to take my whole being… body.. mind…soul and spirit to feel how I felt then… but then I realised I couldn’t…I can’t. I just have imaginations… imaginary feelings… thoughts. I also tried to figure out the future… oh well ‘the future’… sounds too far out of reach. So, I thought of tomorrow. I thought of what I’ll do… how I’ll feel… I didn’t know. That left me with ✨The present! I decided to let my mind be free. My eyes to see the beauty of the world in front of me. My ears to listen to the tiniest sound I could hear. My nose to smell the fresh air (oh… I’m an island girl now away from the cities), and finally to just shut my eyes and take all that in. What can I call that… Inner peace? When you feel everything is falling in place slowly but surely!
So. Let go of all the stress of yesterday. Let go of the anger of years ago… forgive… reconnect and make ammense with whomever you are feeling. Let go of the regret. Release all the hate and frustration. All the devastating moments… forget about it all. Take the lessons you learnt form those experiences and move on! Grow… Give and live in the present. In this present that God has blessed you with.
‘Don’t worry about the future. What isn’t in your control is none of your business!’ This past year taught me that!
Am not saying you only live once… but yea you do… we all do. You only live once! Am saying this on the note that you should be happy. In which other world will you be happy? In which other world will you forgive? In which other world will you reconnect with your loved one? In which other world will you connect with other people and make more beautiful beautiful memories? In which other world will you live for yourself?
Let go of all the horrible feelings that is making you not grow… not give love… start living.
Happiness starts within.